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<title>So, What Now? / Viramontesip99 / Commented News</title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com</link>
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<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 13:43:21 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[PHP Video Scripts Get The Answers You Need]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/php-video-scripts-get-the-answers-you-need/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/php-video-scripts-get-the-answers-you-need/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 13:43:21 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Ferrufinotek</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/php-video-scripts-get-the-answers-you-need/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[PHP Video Scripts - Find The Answers to All Questions Asked About The Top Video Sharing YouTube Clone Scripts - PHP Video Scripts Get The Answers You Need<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:17:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Object Modeling of Ontologies and Object models in Object Oriented Software Engineering]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:13:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>bbbppp</dc:creator>
<category>Selling your business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The object-oriented model is based on a collection ofobjects. An object contains values stored in instance variableswithin the object. Thus objects contain objects to anarbitrarily deep level of nesting. Attributes/properties: objectswill have at least one attribute. Possible slot types areprimitive types (integer, boolean, string etc.), references toother objects (modeling relationships) and sets of values ofthese types. An object also contains bodies of code thatoperate on the object. These bodies of code are calledmethods. Method/Operations: They are attached to classes orslots and contain meta information, such as comments,constraints and default values. Relationship/relations: theyrepresent the relation between objects/classes from objecemodel (KB). Major classes of relations exist: relationscombining labels(the name we tend to give to things) andconcepts(the things themselves) and concepts and relationscombining concepts (the part-whole relation).   Objects that contain the same types of values and the samemethods are grouped into classes. A class may be viewed as atype definition for objects. Analogy: the programminglanguage concept of an abstract data type. The only way inwhich one object can access the data of another object is byinvoking the method of that other object. This is calledsending a message to the object. Internal parts of the object,the instance variables and method code, are not visibleexternally or some researchers called it as black box.   Object/Class represent the tangible things. Forexample, an object representing a bank account. The objectcontains instance variables number and balance. The objectcontains a method pay-interest which adds interest to thebalance. Under most data models, changing the interest rateentails changing code in application programs. In the object-oriented model, this only entails a change within the pay-interest method. In commonly-known object-orienteddata models attributes and associations are not defined withthe class specification itself. Instead, class properties arefirst-class primitive themselves .  One approach for implementing objects is to have a class,which defines the implementation for multiple objects. Aclass defines what types the objects will implement, how toperform the behavior required for the interface and how toremember state information. Each object will then only needto remember its individual state. Although using classes is byfar the most common object approach, it is not the onlyapproach (using prototypes is another approach) and is reallyperipheral to the core concepts of object-oriented modeling.   Unified Modeling Languages (UML) is well known andwidely used object modeling that consist of concepts/entitypes/classes in a specification hierarchy, the descriptionof concepts by attributes which have range and relationshipbetween concepts. UML defines several types of diagram thatcan be used to model the static and dynamic behaviors of asystem. A UML object diagram does not define a standard setof primitive types for attributes and operation declarations;however, Object Constraint Languages (OCL) does and it isproposed that these be used for ontology modeling with UMLModel an ontology as a static model consisting of a classdiagram to depict the classes in the domain and theirrelationships, an object diagram to show particular namedinstances of those classes.   Conceptual (or Ontology) modeling deals with the questionon how to describe in a declarative and abstract way thedomain information of an application, its relevant vocabulary,and how to constrain the use of the data. Modeling languageslike UML and Object Data Management Group (ODMG)have been developed for object oriented models in softwareengineering. Common to all of these newer models is thearrangement of concepts/entitytypes/classes in a specializationhierarchy, the description of concepts by attributes whichhave ranges and relationships between concepts. Concepts,relationshiptypes and attributes abstract from concrete objectsor values and thus describe the schema (the ontology). On theother hand concrete objects populate the concepts, concretevalues instantiate the attributes of these objects and concreterelations instantiate relationships.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Crowne Plaza Hotel Zurich]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/crowne-plaza-hotel-zurich/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/crowne-plaza-hotel-zurich/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 21:58:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>bbbppp</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/crowne-plaza-hotel-zurich/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The Crowne Plaza Hotel Zurich is located in the trendy Zurich West district and has direct access to the national highway system. Guests staying in this hotel in Zurich will have a myriad of tourist attractions and hotspots located close at hand<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Why do American men love asian women?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:46:43 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A female friend asked me this question and I couldn't answer. I like Asian women but she is looking for something more profound than what I could share. Help.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is 5 times a week at the gym too many?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:18:13 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I saw an article that said men over 50 should not try too hard at the gym. Is this true? I don't want to hurt myself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[One woman or many?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/one-woman-or-many/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/one-woman-or-many/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:16:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/one-woman-or-many/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am seeing several women but long for the one. Is it possible when you are over 50, twice divorced and addicted to young Asian girls?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do  younger woman not like older men anymore?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/do--younger-woman-not-like-older-men-anymore/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/do--younger-woman-not-like-older-men-anymore/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 12:47:56 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/do--younger-woman-not-like-older-men-anymore/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I thought it was going to be ewasy to find a younger woman. I am 50 and I was hoping for someone in her early 40s. But these women are all looking for guys in their early 30s. I guess I missed the boat.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Anybody have an answer for collitis?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:52:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Digestive disorders</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have had it for 30 years and it just gets worse and worse. Does anybody know of any natural remedies that can help me to stop using the toilet 30 times a day. When I get there it is mostly blood.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I need to see a doctor for a bruised tendon?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/do-i-need-to-see-a-doctor-for-a-bruised-tendon/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/do-i-need-to-see-a-doctor-for-a-bruised-tendon/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:47:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/do-i-need-to-see-a-doctor-for-a-bruised-tendon/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I hurt my wrist playing golf last Saturday. Two of my tendons are really inflamed. I am icing them and they are feeling better. Do I need to see a doctor?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I leave my family for a job in another city?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/do-i-leave-my-family-for-a-job-in-another-city/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/do-i-leave-my-family-for-a-job-in-another-city/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:40:34 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Shifting careers</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/do-i-leave-my-family-for-a-job-in-another-city/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have been out of work for almost a year. I finally got a job offer but it is 500 miles away. I would only be home on weekend and some times not even then. I have a wife and 10 and 12 year old. I need the job but it seems like I am risking losing the things that are most important to me.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I tell my brother I smoked dope with his son?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Drugs-and-abuse/do-i-tell-my-brother-i-smoked-dope-with-his-son/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Drugs-and-abuse/do-i-tell-my-brother-i-smoked-dope-with-his-son/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:16:30 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Drugs and abuse</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Drugs-and-abuse/do-i-tell-my-brother-i-smoked-dope-with-his-son/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A simple yes or no would help me.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I lie to cover up a friend's cocaine problem?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:12:17 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[It is not my problem, but a friend is having his custody challenged because of drug use. His ex is making it out to be worse than it is, but there is no doubt he does drugs when his kids are in the house. How much truth do I tell?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I take her back because she has cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:32:49 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Cancer</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[An old girlfriend has come back with a diagnosis of cancer. She wants me back and I wouldn't mind that. Am I being used? She says the cancer made her think about me. Am I a sucker?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can I be friend's with my ex sister-in-law?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/can-i-be-friends-with-my-ex-sister-in-law/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/can-i-be-friends-with-my-ex-sister-in-law/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:24:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/can-i-be-friends-with-my-ex-sister-in-law/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My wife and I wer wrong for each other, but I liked her family, and in particular her sister, a lot. Is this a relationship that can be maintained? Or does divorce mean everyone and everything is gone?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is arbitration a good idea in divorce?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 18:59:11 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I saw something a website--divorce360--that recommended arbitration when both parties are friendly. Wrong!!!! We were friendly but what I needed was someone fighting for me. I felt guilty and was willing to give everything away. The abritration attorney let me without recommending that I rethink my generousity. Divorce sucks, no matter what. But you can't do it as friends. Get an attorney and take care of yourself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[orsHGhQTKHvLuZQB]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/orshghqtkhvluzqb/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/orshghqtkhvluzqb/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 21:05:28 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator></dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/orshghqtkhvluzqb/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[jUGWu3  rviagybrtjph, [url=http://fvhhlggkzafe.com/]fvhhlggkzafe[/url], [link=http://nauoxrmodmwy.com/]nauoxrmodmwy[/link], http://heorkjphndhk.com/<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Work from home ideas]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Family-businesses/work-from-home-ideas/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Family-businesses/work-from-home-ideas/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 20:59:10 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator></dc:creator>
<category>Family businesses</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Family-businesses/work-from-home-ideas/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[vdDbqj  pljcbjyeduza, [url=http://uyyrxdqfoxpt.com/]uyyrxdqfoxpt[/url], [link=http://blxccalvconq.com/]blxccalvconq[/link], http://wirmbpwlnmdd.com/<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it OK to be sad?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Time-for-College/is-it-ok-to-be-sad/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Time-for-College/is-it-ok-to-be-sad/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 23:49:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>billy</dc:creator>
<category>Time for College</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Time-for-College/is-it-ok-to-be-sad/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[So, I finally got my kid out of the house.  He found a place up in Santa Barbara and got himself moved in.  He came back this past weekend.  Today, I took him to the train station.  Is it OK to be sad when I've tried so hard to get to this point?  Will I regret pushing things along and no longer having the love of kids around?  Is the grass greener any place?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Foreclosure or short selling: which is less bad?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 15:45:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Selling a house</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am determined to get out of my house (it is way upside down) and have asked anumber of real estate gurus in my town which is the best path. THe advice is literally split right down the middle. So I am asking again: if both are an option, which does less harm to my credit?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How damaging to her was her father's suicide?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 15:35:55 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Parents</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am seeing a woman whose father committed suicide several years ago. She doesn't like to talk about it, which I respect. But I need to understand her feelings around the event if I am going to go forward with her. I don't want to pry, but I do want to know what I am dealing with. How do I ask her about it? Or, should I just split now?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What women leaves three kids to move for a job?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 13:39:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I just met this woman who is quite beautiful and accomplished. I like her. But she moved to LA to pursue a job after divorcing her husband and leaving three little kids in his custody. This seems strange to me. I would think she would want to be closer.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Dating more than one woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 10:30:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I used to say no to this. But I have learned that more often than not, the woman you are dating is seeing someone on the side. Am I the only one who has discovered this pattern of late? I used to think that loyalty to one was the ideal, but it seems that keeping it fresh with a couple is the new paradigm. Comments?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Are women bigger liars than men?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:38:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I really want to know. Because my experience says yes. They have claimed poverty to get money, abuse to get sympathy, illness to get attention, and everyother possible lie you can think of. Women are professionals. We run far behind in this race, my friends.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Why are woman online so weird?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 13:56:42 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[They are there one minute and then just disappear. They promise to write or call back and never do. They say they want to meet someone, but do they? I think they like the game of being chased without the danger of actually getting caught.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Am I in love with my daughter's friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 12:38:49 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>OldGuy</dc:creator>
<category>Loving Her Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Remember the movie American Beauty? Is is my life, right now. My wife is trainwreck. My daughter is distant. And her best friend fills every thought. She is in her early twenties and I am 48, so there is no crime here. But what is the most amazing thing about it is how natural it feels. We sit a lot together while my daughter is getting ready or is out of the house. Sometimes I imagine this young woman is really coming over to the house to see me. I know that isn't tru, but that is where I am at in my life. A succesful business, a loveless marriage and a school boy crush. What now? Where do I take this?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Does LASIK work for aging vision?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Aging-vision/does-lasik-work-for-aging-vision/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Aging-vision/does-lasik-work-for-aging-vision/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:18:16 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>GotNothing</dc:creator>
<category>Aging vision</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Aging-vision/does-lasik-work-for-aging-vision/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I thought LASIK was for younger eyes by changing the shape of the cornea. But there is a group in town that says it can work to cure presbyopia, as well. My understanding is that these are different things and LASIK does not produce good results in old eyes. Help?!?!?!?!?!?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[BioSync or surgery?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:14:48 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>GotNothing</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have a herniated disc in my neck. The ortho wanted to cut me, but a girl recommended BioSync. It is deep tissue massage that increases the blood flow to tissue. My neck is much better and even my ortho said ti was smart to delay or avoid surgery. I don't know if it will last forever, but I am doing well enough right now and I can still go to the gym and hit a ball. Before surgery...give this a try.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How do you feel about buying jewelry?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 21:15:43 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>akoehn</dc:creator>
<category>Becoming Engaged</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I want to know what men think about the jewelry buying experience.  Do you think it's worth it?  Do you &quot;get&quot; it?  At what point do you consider giving something like jewelry to the woman you're with?  What sucks about the jewelry buying process?  That kind of stuff.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What to do for someone dying of cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 12:27:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Cancer</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A good friend has been diagnosed with cervical cancer. She is not doing well. I have never been through this and am struggling with how to support her as she gets worse and worse. Any ideas?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Drugs in my girlfriend's purse?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:58:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I was looking for her phone when I found a little baggie filled with white powder. I my day that would have been a lot of blow, but I don't do it anymore so I am not sure what is a lot and what is not anymore. I have only been dating her a couple months and I like her. Is this a deal buster. I have my own firm so there is nobody I need to impress. But I worry that she will be carrying it around me and I could be caught up in her bad karma. Thoughts? TIme to let her go?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Assisted living or home care?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:42:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Moving in</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Finances and poor care are causing me to rethink my Mother's assisted living situation. She could stay with me and I would hire a full-time nurse. All Mom would miss are her friends. How important are these social connections? Is the place keeping her alive or her friendships? I may be able to find a new place neqarby where she could go for the day a couple times a week. Right now, she is not doing well but I don;t want to make it worse.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Online dating nightmares?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:34:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am having a tough time finding women of substance. I am 50, recently divorced and just getting back out there. I feel like I am too old for bars and all my friends are married. I don't go to church and don;t have much time for volunteer work. I have read a lot about online dating. Any bad experiences out there that would lead me to say &quot;no&quot; to this strategy?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3263/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3263/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 12:00:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>macboy</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3263/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Where are all the great women?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:36:15 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Women talk all the time about how hard it is ti meet good guys. But where are all the good women? I tell you, they are not single. There is good reason most single women are single. The more I meet the more damage I see. SIngle women in their 40s have been through multiple relationships and are unwilling to compromise or change to meet the needs of another. That is why men go young, I think. It isn't for the look of youth, it is for the fun and laughter and wide-eyed joy that young women bring to a relationship. They are grateful. They are filled with hope. They are open to something new and willing to leave their old selves behind to embark on something bigger and better.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it time for AA?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:23:56 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I like that this site is anonymous. I am in my mid-50s and started drinking after my divorce 15 years ago. I never drank while I was married. Now I am hitting it pretty good. I never miss a day of work and I am pretty healthy, but I know it must be taking its toll. The worst thing is that after a string of bad relationships I would rather srink at home alone than go out and meet someone new. Another thing, I oretty much only drink at home. I have a soda and lime when I am out. So it is home where my hell is. Is it time for a change? I guess if I am asking the question the answer is yes. Isn't that what the book says?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Therapy or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:26:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Been through a lot lately and am thinking of going into therapy for the first time in my life. Any advice on whether to go with a marriage and family counselour, a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Don't need drugs--I don't think--just someone to work through all the shit with me.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[WHy do I keep chossing the same woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:23:23 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[She may be blond, dark or whatever, but the same woman keeps coming into my life. She is disloyal, dishonest and runs me around like a little boy. How can I change my karma and make better decisions? How do I stop listening to chemistry and start thinking twice before committing to trainwrecks?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should Dad move in when Mom is sent away?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:54:24 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Moving in</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My Mom needs more care than Dad can provide. We are moving her into an assisted living facility next month. Dad is healthier bu it will be hard for him to be alone and he is not ready for the &quot;home.&quot; Should I put him in a lower care facility or move him in with me? I am single and alone, so it would be just me and him.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[When is it time for a restraining order?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/when-is-it-time-for-a-restraining-order/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/when-is-it-time-for-a-restraining-order/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 14:27:30 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Breaking Up</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/when-is-it-time-for-a-restraining-order/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have refused to take a psycho ex's phone calls. She threatened to come to my office or home to make me listen to her. I told her to not contact me again. She has not stopped. WHen is the time to get help?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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