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<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:22:37 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I chase my friend's ex-wife who is soooooooo ot?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</link>
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<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:22:37 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
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<description><![CDATA[I know, I know, I know, I know, I know. Crazy. Let me have it.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What to do for someone dying of cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 12:27:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Cancer</category>
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<description><![CDATA[A good friend has been diagnosed with cervical cancer. She is not doing well. I have never been through this and am struggling with how to support her as she gets worse and worse. Any ideas?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Drugs in my girlfriend's purse?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:58:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I was looking for her phone when I found a little baggie filled with white powder. I my day that would have been a lot of blow, but I don't do it anymore so I am not sure what is a lot and what is not anymore. I have only been dating her a couple months and I like her. Is this a deal buster. I have my own firm so there is nobody I need to impress. But I worry that she will be carrying it around me and I could be caught up in her bad karma. Thoughts? TIme to let her go?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Assisted living or home care?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:42:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Moving in</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Finances and poor care are causing me to rethink my Mother's assisted living situation. She could stay with me and I would hire a full-time nurse. All Mom would miss are her friends. How important are these social connections? Is the place keeping her alive or her friendships? I may be able to find a new place neqarby where she could go for the day a couple times a week. Right now, she is not doing well but I don;t want to make it worse.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[WHy do I keep chossing the same woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:23:23 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[She may be blond, dark or whatever, but the same woman keeps coming into my life. She is disloyal, dishonest and runs me around like a little boy. How can I change my karma and make better decisions? How do I stop listening to chemistry and start thinking twice before committing to trainwrecks?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How to talk about their dad.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:13:19 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am a part of a new family and am struggling about how to reference my stepkids father. He is not a good guy, doesn;t pay his support and is a drug user. I think the kids know this, but I don't want to dump on him. That would only make them defend him. So what do I do? Pretend his behavior is okay? Condemn him? Ignore him...that would be disingenuous. The kids are 12 and 14 so they get it. But they love their dad in their own way and come back after a weekend with him spitting bullets at their Mom.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Staying in touch with step kids?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/staying-in-touch-with-step-kids/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/staying-in-touch-with-step-kids/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 09:43:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/staying-in-touch-with-step-kids/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I divorced their Mom but I would like to stay in touch with her kids. We were very close for several years. The problem is my new girl thinks I should have no contact with any of them. SHe thinks it is a ploy to stay close their Mom...which it isn't. But she has threatened to leave me over this issue.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Kids at home or on their own?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 09:37:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Old kids and new kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My oldest daughter lost her job. She wants to move in with me to get back on her feet. I am thinking of just sponsoring her for a couple months instead. I really don;t want her back in the house. My question is wihich route is best: her some money or a roof over her head?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Running for mayor?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/running-for-mayor/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/running-for-mayor/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 08:56:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Shifting careers</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/running-for-mayor/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am thinking about running the show in my little home town. I was retired but think it could be fun. Am I fooling myself?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is cancer a reason to reunite]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-cancer-a-reason-to-reunite/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-cancer-a-reason-to-reunite/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 08:54:20 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-cancer-a-reason-to-reunite/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[An ex has been diagnosed with severe cancer. I am caring for her when I can and she wants me back after giving me the boot several years ago. I still care for her and she says that her dondition has made her wiser and aware of what matters most.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Reduced salary or contract work?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/reduced-salary-or-contract-work/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/reduced-salary-or-contract-work/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 18:48:57 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Shifting careers</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/reduced-salary-or-contract-work/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Business downturns forced my employer to make big changes. They gave us an option: reduced salary and remain full-time or become a private contractor? I have always been on staff so this is a little nerve wracking. Any positives or negatives to either choice?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Are divorcees the only way to go?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/are-divorcees-the-only-way-to-go/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/are-divorcees-the-only-way-to-go/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 15:28:21 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/are-divorcees-the-only-way-to-go/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am finding that woman who have suffered through divorce are much better compnaions. Do others agree?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Am I a rebound?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/am-i-a-rebound/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/am-i-a-rebound/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 17:12:05 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
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<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/am-i-a-rebound/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have been chatting with this girl for a month, or so. I am just out of my old thing and she is just out of hers. She is amazing but still reeling from her breakup. She initiated it and of course he has been calling and emailing. She says she is done but I have been here before and don't want to make the same mistake for the second, third, fourth time. Do I hang with her though this or let the friendship thing take over and see what happens? I don't want to push but I don't want to miss out on this great woman.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[The partying uncle.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/the-partying-uncle-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/the-partying-uncle-/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 23:04:06 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/the-partying-uncle-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[That is who I am. My nephews kids are uncool. I party and my nephew wants to be a part of. I don't want to piss off my sister but the kid needs to know that some things are okay. Am I a good influence or a nightmare?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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