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<title>So, What Now? / Rufusichi6 / Commented News</title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com</link>
<description>Pligg Web 2.0 Content Management System</description>
<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:11:26 -0600</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[Buy Cheap Soma Online]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Careers/buy-cheap-soma-online/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Careers/buy-cheap-soma-online/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:11:26 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Proopbreart</dc:creator>
<category>Careers</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Careers/buy-cheap-soma-online/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Buy Cheap Soma Online. Order Soma.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Niche Video Scripts PHP Video CMS Script]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/niche-video-scripts-php-video-cms-script/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/niche-video-scripts-php-video-cms-script/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 12:31:12 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Ferrufinotek</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/niche-video-scripts-php-video-cms-script/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Niche Video Site Building Script to Create 100% Unique Content Video Sites, Powerfull Video Script YouTube Clone, Build 100s of Targeted Keyword Niche Video Websites Lightning Fast<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[VideoSwiper Video Search Engine Web 2.0 Video Application]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/videoswiper-video-search-engine-web-2-0-video-application/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/videoswiper-video-search-engine-web-2-0-video-application/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 19:16:50 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Ferrufinotek</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/videoswiper-video-search-engine-web-2-0-video-application/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Video Embedding Application Creates Niche Video Websites in Minutes, Populates Video Websites and YouTube Clones Automatically, Mass Embedding &amp; Server 2 Server<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:17:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:14:38 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Object Modeling of Ontologies and Object models in Object Oriented Software Engineering]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:13:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>bbbppp</dc:creator>
<category>Selling your business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The object-oriented model is based on a collection ofobjects. An object contains values stored in instance variableswithin the object. Thus objects contain objects to anarbitrarily deep level of nesting. Attributes/properties: objectswill have at least one attribute. Possible slot types areprimitive types (integer, boolean, string etc.), references toother objects (modeling relationships) and sets of values ofthese types. An object also contains bodies of code thatoperate on the object. These bodies of code are calledmethods. Method/Operations: They are attached to classes orslots and contain meta information, such as comments,constraints and default values. Relationship/relations: theyrepresent the relation between objects/classes from objecemodel (KB). Major classes of relations exist: relationscombining labels(the name we tend to give to things) andconcepts(the things themselves) and concepts and relationscombining concepts (the part-whole relation).   Objects that contain the same types of values and the samemethods are grouped into classes. A class may be viewed as atype definition for objects. Analogy: the programminglanguage concept of an abstract data type. The only way inwhich one object can access the data of another object is byinvoking the method of that other object. This is calledsending a message to the object. Internal parts of the object,the instance variables and method code, are not visibleexternally or some researchers called it as black box.   Object/Class represent the tangible things. Forexample, an object representing a bank account. The objectcontains instance variables number and balance. The objectcontains a method pay-interest which adds interest to thebalance. Under most data models, changing the interest rateentails changing code in application programs. In the object-oriented model, this only entails a change within the pay-interest method. In commonly-known object-orienteddata models attributes and associations are not defined withthe class specification itself. Instead, class properties arefirst-class primitive themselves .  One approach for implementing objects is to have a class,which defines the implementation for multiple objects. Aclass defines what types the objects will implement, how toperform the behavior required for the interface and how toremember state information. Each object will then only needto remember its individual state. Although using classes is byfar the most common object approach, it is not the onlyapproach (using prototypes is another approach) and is reallyperipheral to the core concepts of object-oriented modeling.   Unified Modeling Languages (UML) is well known andwidely used object modeling that consist of concepts/entitypes/classes in a specification hierarchy, the descriptionof concepts by attributes which have range and relationshipbetween concepts. UML defines several types of diagram thatcan be used to model the static and dynamic behaviors of asystem. A UML object diagram does not define a standard setof primitive types for attributes and operation declarations;however, Object Constraint Languages (OCL) does and it isproposed that these be used for ontology modeling with UMLModel an ontology as a static model consisting of a classdiagram to depict the classes in the domain and theirrelationships, an object diagram to show particular namedinstances of those classes.   Conceptual (or Ontology) modeling deals with the questionon how to describe in a declarative and abstract way thedomain information of an application, its relevant vocabulary,and how to constrain the use of the data. Modeling languageslike UML and Object Data Management Group (ODMG)have been developed for object oriented models in softwareengineering. Common to all of these newer models is thearrangement of concepts/entitytypes/classes in a specializationhierarchy, the description of concepts by attributes whichhave ranges and relationships between concepts. Concepts,relationshiptypes and attributes abstract from concrete objectsor values and thus describe the schema (the ontology). On theother hand concrete objects populate the concepts, concretevalues instantiate the attributes of these objects and concreterelations instantiate relationships.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Why do American men love asian women?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:46:43 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A female friend asked me this question and I couldn't answer. I like Asian women but she is looking for something more profound than what I could share. Help.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is 2 weeks not enough for her?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/is-2-weeks-not-enough-for-her/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/is-2-weeks-not-enough-for-her/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:20:12 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/is-2-weeks-not-enough-for-her/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I really like thiis girl but she is fresh out of  a thing with a crazy cop. I think I should give her some room but I am so drawn to her that it is hard to push it away. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is 5 times a week at the gym too many?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:18:13 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I saw an article that said men over 50 should not try too hard at the gym. Is this true? I don't want to hurt myself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[One woman or many?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/one-woman-or-many/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/one-woman-or-many/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:16:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/one-woman-or-many/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am seeing several women but long for the one. Is it possible when you are over 50, twice divorced and addicted to young Asian girls?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do  younger woman not like older men anymore?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/do--younger-woman-not-like-older-men-anymore/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/do--younger-woman-not-like-older-men-anymore/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 12:47:56 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/do--younger-woman-not-like-older-men-anymore/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I thought it was going to be ewasy to find a younger woman. I am 50 and I was hoping for someone in her early 40s. But these women are all looking for guys in their early 30s. I guess I missed the boat.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[are woman worth waiting for?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/are-woman-worth-waiting-for/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/are-woman-worth-waiting-for/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:49:47 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/are-woman-worth-waiting-for/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We have something special, there is no denying and she would agree. But it will be 6 months or a year before she is here. Do I wait or do I do the guy thing and just move forward, fucking everything I can?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Where do I find my mojo?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:44:05 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am putting it out there. I am approaching girls. In the past I did well. But it has been a while and I feel like I am pressing too much. I go nuthin!!!!! It is painful and there are fish everywhere. Except in my boat.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How long do you stay with a business before you give up?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/how-long-do-you-stay-with-a-business-before-you-give-up/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/how-long-do-you-stay-with-a-business-before-you-give-up/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:37:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/how-long-do-you-stay-with-a-business-before-you-give-up/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have developed a web business and cannot seem to get others to participate at a level that would make it a possible success. I know it takes perseverance, but I am tired of going it alone and begging for help. It has been almost a year and now seems like a good time to yell chicken.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[ITBXCPKwrLljtRr]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/itbxcpkwrlljtrr/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/itbxcpkwrlljtrr/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 01:34:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator></dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/itbxcpkwrlljtrr/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[GD02R4  lczfjrkweyec, [url=http://gcgnplrsnxak.com/]gcgnplrsnxak[/url], [link=http://uzfoxivqdoqs.com/]uzfoxivqdoqs[/link], http://fdcdyazuljdt.com/<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I lie to cover up a friend's cocaine problem?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:12:17 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[It is not my problem, but a friend is having his custody challenged because of drug use. His ex is making it out to be worse than it is, but there is no doubt he does drugs when his kids are in the house. How much truth do I tell?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I take her back because she has cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:32:49 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Cancer</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[An old girlfriend has come back with a diagnosis of cancer. She wants me back and I wouldn't mind that. Am I being used? She says the cancer made her think about me. Am I a sucker?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is arbitration a good idea in divorce?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 18:59:11 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I saw something a website--divorce360--that recommended arbitration when both parties are friendly. Wrong!!!! We were friendly but what I needed was someone fighting for me. I felt guilty and was willing to give everything away. The abritration attorney let me without recommending that I rethink my generousity. Divorce sucks, no matter what. But you can't do it as friends. Get an attorney and take care of yourself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[uNtPIZKGMyyMMci]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/untpizkgmyymmci/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/untpizkgmyymmci/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 21:02:41 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator></dc:creator>
<category>Parents</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/untpizkgmyymmci/</guid>
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<title><![CDATA[Work from home ideas]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Family-businesses/work-from-home-ideas/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Family-businesses/work-from-home-ideas/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 20:59:10 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator></dc:creator>
<category>Family businesses</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Family-businesses/work-from-home-ideas/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[vdDbqj  pljcbjyeduza, [url=http://uyyrxdqfoxpt.com/]uyyrxdqfoxpt[/url], [link=http://blxccalvconq.com/]blxccalvconq[/link], http://wirmbpwlnmdd.com/<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can you be friends with your ex?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:11:41 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I used to think that I could remain friends with old wives and girlfriends, but I don't think so anymore. Why do women insist that it was they who did the breaking up? Who cares. And whay do they feel a need to tear us down to our friends? Just shut up. Everything was better when we were younger. Older women are just older and meaner.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Foreclosure or short selling: which is less bad?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 15:45:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Selling a house</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am determined to get out of my house (it is way upside down) and have asked anumber of real estate gurus in my town which is the best path. THe advice is literally split right down the middle. So I am asking again: if both are an option, which does less harm to my credit?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How damaging to her was her father's suicide?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 15:35:55 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Parents</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am seeing a woman whose father committed suicide several years ago. She doesn't like to talk about it, which I respect. But I need to understand her feelings around the event if I am going to go forward with her. I don't want to pry, but I do want to know what I am dealing with. How do I ask her about it? Or, should I just split now?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Dating more than one woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 10:30:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I used to say no to this. But I have learned that more often than not, the woman you are dating is seeing someone on the side. Am I the only one who has discovered this pattern of late? I used to think that loyalty to one was the ideal, but it seems that keeping it fresh with a couple is the new paradigm. Comments?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How aware should kids be of your financial situation?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:41:29 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Kids and school</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am struggling right now and need to keep spending to a minimum. I don;t want to alarm my family but I need them to watch things, too. How do I share this info with teenagers and an 8-year old? I have never lied to them but they are kids and may not handle a topic they don't really understand.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3373/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3373/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 05:26:51 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>edwintate5179</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3373/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Incenting employees with cash or stock?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/incenting-employees-with-cash-or-stock/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/incenting-employees-with-cash-or-stock/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 11:05:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/incenting-employees-with-cash-or-stock/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have four key employees that I am want to motivate to stay and produce. In the past I have given performance bonuses. I toyed with the idea of options several years ago but decided against it. Now, I am re-thinking it. I am looking for help in determining the pluses and minuses of giving a portion of my business away versus simply giving cash?Thanks for any insight.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What if I like her friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:04:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Loving Her Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We dated for a couple years. She broke with me. Now, I have run into one of her friends and it is clear that something great could happen, but she thinks we are being disloyal. I am willing to go to my ex to ask her okay....Is that appropriate or am i giving her too much power?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Online dating nightmares?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:34:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am having a tough time finding women of substance. I am 50, recently divorced and just getting back out there. I feel like I am too old for bars and all my friends are married. I don't go to church and don;t have much time for volunteer work. I have read a lot about online dating. Any bad experiences out there that would lead me to say &quot;no&quot; to this strategy?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3264/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3264/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 14:15:46 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>macboy</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3264/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is a good friend's ex off limits?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 15:38:18 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[They were never together much (his words), but they did travel and sleep together. They've been done about a month and I ran into her and it was clear something could happen. I haven't been in this situation in a long time and wanted to know if the rules had changed. In my day, this was a strict no no. Is that still true?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it time for AA?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:23:56 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I like that this site is anonymous. I am in my mid-50s and started drinking after my divorce 15 years ago. I never drank while I was married. Now I am hitting it pretty good. I never miss a day of work and I am pretty healthy, but I know it must be taking its toll. The worst thing is that after a string of bad relationships I would rather srink at home alone than go out and meet someone new. Another thing, I oretty much only drink at home. I have a soda and lime when I am out. So it is home where my hell is. Is it time for a change? I guess if I am asking the question the answer is yes. Isn't that what the book says?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Therapy or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:26:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Been through a lot lately and am thinking of going into therapy for the first time in my life. Any advice on whether to go with a marriage and family counselour, a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Don't need drugs--I don't think--just someone to work through all the shit with me.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[WHy do I keep chossing the same woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:23:23 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[She may be blond, dark or whatever, but the same woman keeps coming into my life. She is disloyal, dishonest and runs me around like a little boy. How can I change my karma and make better decisions? How do I stop listening to chemistry and start thinking twice before committing to trainwrecks?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[An answer for chronic pain.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:34:48 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[This is not a question, but I have noticed a lot of questions around chronic pain. I was headed to surgery for a herniated disc when someone turned me onto BioSync. It is deep, deep tissue massage that claims to break down scar tissue and collagen so that blood can get to the injured area. It has really helped me neck and I would encourage everybody to try it before going under the knife. Chekc it out at www.biosync.com.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Good time to start a business?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:11:27 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have a job that isn't going anywhere...but it is a job. It's a paycheck. But I have an idea for a new venture that I think could work. But I need money. Is it better to borrow money from friends? Put initial costs on a credit card? Or get a small business loan? I am putting up over half by myself, but I do need some help. Also, if I do go to the bank I know I need a business plan. Anything else?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Back or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:36:12 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We were together a long time ago. We always laughed a lot and had blast. Now, we are both fresh out of ptwo pretty bad relationships and we are talking again. Do I jump in? Jump on? My friends and fmaily would be horrified that I would go back but there is simething about this woman....Am I nuts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Boil the bunny?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/boil-the-bunny/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/boil-the-bunny/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 13:38:39 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/boil-the-bunny/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[What is the biggest lie ever told to you by a woman? I can top that....a psycho ex claims she has cancer. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't...but the chips don't add up. I initially offered my love and support. That was promptly withdrawn when I discovered a supposed hospital visit was actually spent in a drunked romp around town. SHe says I am wrong. She cries and stomps her foot. She attacks me for my insensitivity. Maybe she is right. But I am donedonedone.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Kids at home or on their own?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 09:37:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Old kids and new kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My oldest daughter lost her job. She wants to move in with me to get back on her feet. I am thinking of just sponsoring her for a couple months instead. I really don;t want her back in the house. My question is wihich route is best: her some money or a roof over her head?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Running for mayor?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/running-for-mayor/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/running-for-mayor/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 08:56:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Shifting careers</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/running-for-mayor/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am thinking about running the show in my little home town. I was retired but think it could be fun. Am I fooling myself?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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