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<title>So, What Now? / Mendonsaursa28 / Commented News</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:29:01 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-2/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-2/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:29:01 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-2/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:17:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:14:38 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I chase my friend's ex-wife who is soooooooo ot?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:22:37 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I know, I know, I know, I know, I know. Crazy. Let me have it.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What do women over 40 want?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:46:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[What?!!!!!! I am tall, dark, handsome...with money and charm...if I do say. In the past I could do no wrong. Now, it seems that women are looking for trainwrecks that are worse than they are. Is that possible? I would love a checklist of how to find one woman that has class, brains and beauty.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I lie to cover up a friend's cocaine problem?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:12:17 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[It is not my problem, but a friend is having his custody challenged because of drug use. His ex is making it out to be worse than it is, but there is no doubt he does drugs when his kids are in the house. How much truth do I tell?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How damaging to her was her father's suicide?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 15:35:55 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Parents</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am seeing a woman whose father committed suicide several years ago. She doesn't like to talk about it, which I respect. But I need to understand her feelings around the event if I am going to go forward with her. I don't want to pry, but I do want to know what I am dealing with. How do I ask her about it? Or, should I just split now?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How aware should kids be of your financial situation?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:41:29 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Kids and school</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am struggling right now and need to keep spending to a minimum. I don;t want to alarm my family but I need them to watch things, too. How do I share this info with teenagers and an 8-year old? I have never lied to them but they are kids and may not handle a topic they don't really understand.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Am I in love with my daughter's friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 12:38:49 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>OldGuy</dc:creator>
<category>Loving Her Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Remember the movie American Beauty? Is is my life, right now. My wife is trainwreck. My daughter is distant. And her best friend fills every thought. She is in her early twenties and I am 48, so there is no crime here. But what is the most amazing thing about it is how natural it feels. We sit a lot together while my daughter is getting ready or is out of the house. Sometimes I imagine this young woman is really coming over to the house to see me. I know that isn't tru, but that is where I am at in my life. A succesful business, a loveless marriage and a school boy crush. What now? Where do I take this?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I jump out of my house?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:08:08 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Bad investing</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have lost 40% of my value. If prices were to go up 5% a year I would not break even for 20 years. I am thinking of simply packing up and moving out. In two years I will have saved enough for 20% down on my next place and the market will still be way down so I will actually be in a place to build equity. I know it is irresponsible. But these are desperate times and I feel a need to look at things very selfishly. I need to make money on my house or I will be on the street when I retire. Thoughts on this plan would be very appreciated.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Incenting employees with cash or stock?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/incenting-employees-with-cash-or-stock/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/incenting-employees-with-cash-or-stock/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 11:05:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/incenting-employees-with-cash-or-stock/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have four key employees that I am want to motivate to stay and produce. In the past I have given performance bonuses. I toyed with the idea of options several years ago but decided against it. Now, I am re-thinking it. I am looking for help in determining the pluses and minuses of giving a portion of my business away versus simply giving cash?Thanks for any insight.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[BioSync vs surgery?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-vs-surgery/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-vs-surgery/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:39:06 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-vs-surgery/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A derniated disc in my neck got me close to surgery. But a friend recommended BioSync. It is deep tissue massage that focuses on breaking down the scar tissue and collagen to increase blood flow to the injury. My question is does anybody else have expeience with BioSync? Did it hurt or help?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Online dating nightmares?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:34:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am having a tough time finding women of substance. I am 50, recently divorced and just getting back out there. I feel like I am too old for bars and all my friends are married. I don't go to church and don;t have much time for volunteer work. I have read a lot about online dating. Any bad experiences out there that would lead me to say &quot;no&quot; to this strategy?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[WHy do I keep chossing the same woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:23:23 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[She may be blond, dark or whatever, but the same woman keeps coming into my life. She is disloyal, dishonest and runs me around like a little boy. How can I change my karma and make better decisions? How do I stop listening to chemistry and start thinking twice before committing to trainwrecks?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Good time to start a business?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:11:27 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have a job that isn't going anywhere...but it is a job. It's a paycheck. But I have an idea for a new venture that I think could work. But I need money. Is it better to borrow money from friends? Put initial costs on a credit card? Or get a small business loan? I am putting up over half by myself, but I do need some help. Also, if I do go to the bank I know I need a business plan. Anything else?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Back or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:36:12 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We were together a long time ago. We always laughed a lot and had blast. Now, we are both fresh out of ptwo pretty bad relationships and we are talking again. Do I jump in? Jump on? My friends and fmaily would be horrified that I would go back but there is simething about this woman....Am I nuts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How to talk about their dad.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:13:19 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am a part of a new family and am struggling about how to reference my stepkids father. He is not a good guy, doesn;t pay his support and is a drug user. I think the kids know this, but I don't want to dump on him. That would only make them defend him. So what do I do? Pretend his behavior is okay? Condemn him? Ignore him...that would be disingenuous. The kids are 12 and 14 so they get it. But they love their dad in their own way and come back after a weekend with him spitting bullets at their Mom.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Kids at home or on their own?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 09:37:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Old kids and new kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My oldest daughter lost her job. She wants to move in with me to get back on her feet. I am thinking of just sponsoring her for a couple months instead. I really don;t want her back in the house. My question is wihich route is best: her some money or a roof over her head?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What is chemistry?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-is-chemistry/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-is-chemistry/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 19:44:12 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-is-chemistry/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have it with woman I shouldn't be with. I don't have it with woman I like. Can it grow over time or is just something that is or isn't? ANd for that matter what is chemistry: biology, chemistry, instinct, something you taste or smell or is just as silly as who is hot and who is not? It can't be that because I dig woman most who have a hot brain and not hot breasts. SO WHAT IS CHEMISTRY AND HOW DO I GET SOME WITH THE WOMEN WHO MATTER MOST TO ME?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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