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<title>So, What Now? / Gershmanip99 / Commented News</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 06:33:57 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[chappe chaufe im wintersb]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/chappe-chaufe-im-wintersb/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/chappe-chaufe-im-wintersb/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 06:33:57 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Schwartzkopfnqayh</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/chappe-chaufe-im-wintersb/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[chaschs der ineziehsn<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-2/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-2/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:29:01 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-2/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:17:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:14:38 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Crowne Plaza Hotel Zurich]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/crowne-plaza-hotel-zurich/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/crowne-plaza-hotel-zurich/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 21:58:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>bbbppp</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/crowne-plaza-hotel-zurich/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The Crowne Plaza Hotel Zurich is located in the trendy Zurich West district and has direct access to the national highway system. Guests staying in this hotel in Zurich will have a myriad of tourist attractions and hotspots located close at hand<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I chase my friend's ex-wife who is soooooooo ot?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:22:37 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I know, I know, I know, I know, I know. Crazy. Let me have it.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is 5 times a week at the gym too many?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:18:13 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/is-5-times-a-week-at-the-gym-too-many/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I saw an article that said men over 50 should not try too hard at the gym. Is this true? I don't want to hurt myself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[ITBXCPKwrLljtRr]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/itbxcpkwrlljtrr/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/itbxcpkwrlljtrr/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 01:34:26 -0500</pubDate>
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<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/itbxcpkwrlljtrr/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[GD02R4  lczfjrkweyec, [url=http://gcgnplrsnxak.com/]gcgnplrsnxak[/url], [link=http://uzfoxivqdoqs.com/]uzfoxivqdoqs[/link], http://fdcdyazuljdt.com/<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Anybody have an answer for collitis?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:52:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Digestive disorders</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have had it for 30 years and it just gets worse and worse. Does anybody know of any natural remedies that can help me to stop using the toilet 30 times a day. When I get there it is mostly blood.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I see her after all these years?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/should-i-see-her-after-all-these-years/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/should-i-see-her-after-all-these-years/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:14:27 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Long Lost Loves</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/should-i-see-her-after-all-these-years/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[It has been twnety years since an incredible summer that broke me apart when it ended. Now, she has reappeared and wants to see me. I am single and she is separated. I want to say yes but part of me is very afraid of her.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I lie to cover up a friend's cocaine problem?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:12:17 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[It is not my problem, but a friend is having his custody challenged because of drug use. His ex is making it out to be worse than it is, but there is no doubt he does drugs when his kids are in the house. How much truth do I tell?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is arbitration a good idea in divorce?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 18:59:11 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I saw something a website--divorce360--that recommended arbitration when both parties are friendly. Wrong!!!! We were friendly but what I needed was someone fighting for me. I felt guilty and was willing to give everything away. The abritration attorney let me without recommending that I rethink my generousity. Divorce sucks, no matter what. But you can't do it as friends. Get an attorney and take care of yourself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it OK to be sad?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Time-for-College/is-it-ok-to-be-sad/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Time-for-College/is-it-ok-to-be-sad/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 23:49:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>billy</dc:creator>
<category>Time for College</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Time-for-College/is-it-ok-to-be-sad/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[So, I finally got my kid out of the house.  He found a place up in Santa Barbara and got himself moved in.  He came back this past weekend.  Today, I took him to the train station.  Is it OK to be sad when I've tried so hard to get to this point?  Will I regret pushing things along and no longer having the love of kids around?  Is the grass greener any place?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can you be friends with your ex?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:11:41 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I used to think that I could remain friends with old wives and girlfriends, but I don't think so anymore. Why do women insist that it was they who did the breaking up? Who cares. And whay do they feel a need to tear us down to our friends? Just shut up. Everything was better when we were younger. Older women are just older and meaner.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Foreclosure or short selling: which is less bad?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 15:45:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Selling a house</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-a-house/foreclosure-or-short-selling-which-is-less-bad/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am determined to get out of my house (it is way upside down) and have asked anumber of real estate gurus in my town which is the best path. THe advice is literally split right down the middle. So I am asking again: if both are an option, which does less harm to my credit?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What women leaves three kids to move for a job?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 13:39:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I just met this woman who is quite beautiful and accomplished. I like her. But she moved to LA to pursue a job after divorcing her husband and leaving three little kids in his custody. This seems strange to me. I would think she would want to be closer.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How aware should kids be of your financial situation?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:41:29 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Kids and school</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am struggling right now and need to keep spending to a minimum. I don;t want to alarm my family but I need them to watch things, too. How do I share this info with teenagers and an 8-year old? I have never lied to them but they are kids and may not handle a topic they don't really understand.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Are women bigger liars than men?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:38:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I really want to know. Because my experience says yes. They have claimed poverty to get money, abuse to get sympathy, illness to get attention, and everyother possible lie you can think of. Women are professionals. We run far behind in this race, my friends.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Why are woman online so weird?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 13:56:42 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[They are there one minute and then just disappear. They promise to write or call back and never do. They say they want to meet someone, but do they? I think they like the game of being chased without the danger of actually getting caught.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Am I in love with my daughter's friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 12:38:49 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>OldGuy</dc:creator>
<category>Loving Her Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Remember the movie American Beauty? Is is my life, right now. My wife is trainwreck. My daughter is distant. And her best friend fills every thought. She is in her early twenties and I am 48, so there is no crime here. But what is the most amazing thing about it is how natural it feels. We sit a lot together while my daughter is getting ready or is out of the house. Sometimes I imagine this young woman is really coming over to the house to see me. I know that isn't tru, but that is where I am at in my life. A succesful business, a loveless marriage and a school boy crush. What now? Where do I take this?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Does LASIK work for aging vision?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Aging-vision/does-lasik-work-for-aging-vision/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Aging-vision/does-lasik-work-for-aging-vision/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:18:16 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>GotNothing</dc:creator>
<category>Aging vision</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Aging-vision/does-lasik-work-for-aging-vision/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I thought LASIK was for younger eyes by changing the shape of the cornea. But there is a group in town that says it can work to cure presbyopia, as well. My understanding is that these are different things and LASIK does not produce good results in old eyes. Help?!?!?!?!?!?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[All commission sales reps?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:00:42 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I run a marketing company with clients scattered nationally. Business is off (duh!!) and a friend suggested I bring on some hungry dogs to try and change the flow. This is a cultural shift for us as a company. We have always been more referral based and have survived for 20 years staying above the pack with good service and work. But it is a different time. My concern is that this move shifts our brand into more of a price-cutting model as these guys go for anything they can to get commissions. This doesn't feel right but the most important thing is the survival of the business. Any experiences out there with blood sucking reps.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How do you feel about buying jewelry?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 21:15:43 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>akoehn</dc:creator>
<category>Becoming Engaged</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I want to know what men think about the jewelry buying experience.  Do you think it's worth it?  Do you &quot;get&quot; it?  At what point do you consider giving something like jewelry to the woman you're with?  What sucks about the jewelry buying process?  That kind of stuff.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3330/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3330/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 15:15:19 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>make-money-fast</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3330/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What to do for someone dying of cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 12:27:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Cancer</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A good friend has been diagnosed with cervical cancer. She is not doing well. I have never been through this and am struggling with how to support her as she gets worse and worse. Any ideas?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Drugs in my girlfriend's purse?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:58:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I was looking for her phone when I found a little baggie filled with white powder. I my day that would have been a lot of blow, but I don't do it anymore so I am not sure what is a lot and what is not anymore. I have only been dating her a couple months and I like her. Is this a deal buster. I have my own firm so there is nobody I need to impress. But I worry that she will be carrying it around me and I could be caught up in her bad karma. Thoughts? TIme to let her go?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Assisted living or home care?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:42:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Moving in</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Finances and poor care are causing me to rethink my Mother's assisted living situation. She could stay with me and I would hire a full-time nurse. All Mom would miss are her friends. How important are these social connections? Is the place keeping her alive or her friendships? I may be able to find a new place neqarby where she could go for the day a couple times a week. Right now, she is not doing well but I don;t want to make it worse.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Online dating nightmares?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:34:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am having a tough time finding women of substance. I am 50, recently divorced and just getting back out there. I feel like I am too old for bars and all my friends are married. I don't go to church and don;t have much time for volunteer work. I have read a lot about online dating. Any bad experiences out there that would lead me to say &quot;no&quot; to this strategy?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3264/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3264/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 14:15:46 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>macboy</dc:creator>
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<title><![CDATA[Is a good friend's ex off limits?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 15:38:18 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[They were never together much (his words), but they did travel and sleep together. They've been done about a month and I ran into her and it was clear something could happen. I haven't been in this situation in a long time and wanted to know if the rules had changed. In my day, this was a strict no no. Is that still true?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Where are all the great women?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:36:15 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Women talk all the time about how hard it is ti meet good guys. But where are all the good women? I tell you, they are not single. There is good reason most single women are single. The more I meet the more damage I see. SIngle women in their 40s have been through multiple relationships and are unwilling to compromise or change to meet the needs of another. That is why men go young, I think. It isn't for the look of youth, it is for the fun and laughter and wide-eyed joy that young women bring to a relationship. They are grateful. They are filled with hope. They are open to something new and willing to leave their old selves behind to embark on something bigger and better.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it time for AA?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:23:56 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I like that this site is anonymous. I am in my mid-50s and started drinking after my divorce 15 years ago. I never drank while I was married. Now I am hitting it pretty good. I never miss a day of work and I am pretty healthy, but I know it must be taking its toll. The worst thing is that after a string of bad relationships I would rather srink at home alone than go out and meet someone new. Another thing, I oretty much only drink at home. I have a soda and lime when I am out. So it is home where my hell is. Is it time for a change? I guess if I am asking the question the answer is yes. Isn't that what the book says?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Therapy or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:26:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Been through a lot lately and am thinking of going into therapy for the first time in my life. Any advice on whether to go with a marriage and family counselour, a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Don't need drugs--I don't think--just someone to work through all the shit with me.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[WHy do I keep chossing the same woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:23:23 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[She may be blond, dark or whatever, but the same woman keeps coming into my life. She is disloyal, dishonest and runs me around like a little boy. How can I change my karma and make better decisions? How do I stop listening to chemistry and start thinking twice before committing to trainwrecks?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should Dad move in when Mom is sent away?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:54:24 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Moving in</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My Mom needs more care than Dad can provide. We are moving her into an assisted living facility next month. Dad is healthier bu it will be hard for him to be alone and he is not ready for the &quot;home.&quot; Should I put him in a lower care facility or move him in with me? I am single and alone, so it would be just me and him.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[She cheated and is sorry.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:38:33 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Cheating</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The title says it all. I found out through friends that it has been going on for years. We have two lilttle kids and she is sorry. I told her I am leaving and she says she will do anything to reconcile, including moving out of state, which I want to do. I feel like a fresh start, a new state, and a new state of mind could be the answer. I know I am stupid, but can people change. Again, two little kids and doesn't everybody cheat?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[An answer for chronic pain.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:34:48 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[This is not a question, but I have noticed a lot of questions around chronic pain. I was headed to surgery for a herniated disc when someone turned me onto BioSync. It is deep, deep tissue massage that claims to break down scar tissue and collagen so that blood can get to the injured area. It has really helped me neck and I would encourage everybody to try it before going under the knife. Chekc it out at www.biosync.com.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Good time to start a business?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</link>
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<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:11:27 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/good-time-to-start-a-business/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have a job that isn't going anywhere...but it is a job. It's a paycheck. But I have an idea for a new venture that I think could work. But I need money. Is it better to borrow money from friends? Put initial costs on a credit card? Or get a small business loan? I am putting up over half by myself, but I do need some help. Also, if I do go to the bank I know I need a business plan. Anything else?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Back or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:36:12 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We were together a long time ago. We always laughed a lot and had blast. Now, we are both fresh out of ptwo pretty bad relationships and we are talking again. Do I jump in? Jump on? My friends and fmaily would be horrified that I would go back but there is simething about this woman....Am I nuts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Kids at home or on their own?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 09:37:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Old kids and new kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-kids-and-new-kids/kids-at-home-or-on-their-own/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My oldest daughter lost her job. She wants to move in with me to get back on her feet. I am thinking of just sponsoring her for a couple months instead. I really don;t want her back in the house. My question is wihich route is best: her some money or a roof over her head?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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