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<title>So, What Now? / DoubleC / Commented News</title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com</link>
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<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:22:37 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I chase my friend's ex-wife who is soooooooo ot?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:22:37 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I know, I know, I know, I know, I know. Crazy. Let me have it.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I see her after all these years?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/should-i-see-her-after-all-these-years/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/should-i-see-her-after-all-these-years/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:14:27 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Long Lost Loves</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/should-i-see-her-after-all-these-years/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[It has been twnety years since an incredible summer that broke me apart when it ended. Now, she has reappeared and wants to see me. I am single and she is separated. I want to say yes but part of me is very afraid of her.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I lie to cover up a friend's cocaine problem?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:12:17 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/do-i-lie-to-cover-up-a-friends-cocaine-problem/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[It is not my problem, but a friend is having his custody challenged because of drug use. His ex is making it out to be worse than it is, but there is no doubt he does drugs when his kids are in the house. How much truth do I tell?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Am I in love with my daughter's friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 12:38:49 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>OldGuy</dc:creator>
<category>Loving Her Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/am-i-in-love-with-my-daughters-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Remember the movie American Beauty? Is is my life, right now. My wife is trainwreck. My daughter is distant. And her best friend fills every thought. She is in her early twenties and I am 48, so there is no crime here. But what is the most amazing thing about it is how natural it feels. We sit a lot together while my daughter is getting ready or is out of the house. Sometimes I imagine this young woman is really coming over to the house to see me. I know that isn't tru, but that is where I am at in my life. A succesful business, a loveless marriage and a school boy crush. What now? Where do I take this?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[BioSync or surgery?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:14:48 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>GotNothing</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have a herniated disc in my neck. The ortho wanted to cut me, but a girl recommended BioSync. It is deep tissue massage that increases the blood flow to tissue. My neck is much better and even my ortho said ti was smart to delay or avoid surgery. I don't know if it will last forever, but I am doing well enough right now and I can still go to the gym and hit a ball. Before surgery...give this a try.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I jump out of my house?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:08:08 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Bad investing</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have lost 40% of my value. If prices were to go up 5% a year I would not break even for 20 years. I am thinking of simply packing up and moving out. In two years I will have saved enough for 20% down on my next place and the market will still be way down so I will actually be in a place to build equity. I know it is irresponsible. But these are desperate times and I feel a need to look at things very selfishly. I need to make money on my house or I will be on the street when I retire. Thoughts on this plan would be very appreciated.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[All commission sales reps?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:00:42 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I run a marketing company with clients scattered nationally. Business is off (duh!!) and a friend suggested I bring on some hungry dogs to try and change the flow. This is a cultural shift for us as a company. We have always been more referral based and have survived for 20 years staying above the pack with good service and work. But it is a different time. My concern is that this move shifts our brand into more of a price-cutting model as these guys go for anything they can to get commissions. This doesn't feel right but the most important thing is the survival of the business. Any experiences out there with blood sucking reps.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Therapy or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:26:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/therapy-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Been through a lot lately and am thinking of going into therapy for the first time in my life. Any advice on whether to go with a marriage and family counselour, a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Don't need drugs--I don't think--just someone to work through all the shit with me.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Stepkids....]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:00:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have one set of stepkids. Mom was insane. But the kids are great and we are still close. Now I am with a new gal and she has kids, as well, and a crazy ex. I like this woman but am a little burnt on weeding through all the issues that come with a situation like this. Still, the best women out there are ones with kids, at least for me. A woman in her 40s who has never been married is a train wreck. There is a reason they are single....I guess I just answered my own question.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it legal to use online drugstore]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Heart-disease/is-it-legal-to-use-online-drugstore/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Heart-disease/is-it-legal-to-use-online-drugstore/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 04:44:08 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>chuvaki</dc:creator>
<category>Heart disease</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Heart-disease/is-it-legal-to-use-online-drugstore/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Hi, I'm taking a lipitor course now, so I've decided to save some money on online drugstore pillz.me. Is it legal?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can you have a relationship with a Call Girl?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/can-you-have-a-relationship-with-a-call-girl/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/can-you-have-a-relationship-with-a-call-girl/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 13:55:54 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Kenfox</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/can-you-have-a-relationship-with-a-call-girl/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have been divorced for several years, dated seriuosly a couple of times, but found that I have an inability to committ right now.  Met a great girl who is a &quot;professional&quot;...totally hot, totally fun, we have a great time together (go on dates once in awhile besides just the physical side).  The financial equation works out about the same as having a girlfriend.Am I crazy or is this the perfect lifestyle?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is the best answer some times just to move away?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/is-the-best-answer-some-times-just-to-move-away/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/is-the-best-answer-some-times-just-to-move-away/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 10:39:34 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/is-the-best-answer-some-times-just-to-move-away/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A good friend has lost his job and his family. He is looking for work but has an opportunity across the country. This would mean leaving close friends and his family, but it would also mean a fresh start on so many levels. He has asked my advice and I don't know what to say. My gut is to pack up the pickup and go. I say that but I am not sure I would ever do that. Plus, it would be hard for me personally to have this person not here. Still, can a geographic solve a problem or does it just create more?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[People or profits?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/people-or-profits/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/people-or-profits/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 18:58:09 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/people-or-profits/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My largest client has demanded new representation. Either we make the switch and let her current team go or she will pull the account and go elsewhere? I have never succumbed to the threats of clients, but th eloss of this piece of business puts my operation at risk. It would cost not just the jobs of her team but others. But it would not close the business. Still, what is more important, my conscience in backing my people and not taking it in the ass from a bitch....Or, protecting the business in this tough time?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How to help people suffering from low esteem feeling ?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Health/how-to-help-people-suffering-from-low-esteem-feeling-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Health/how-to-help-people-suffering-from-low-esteem-feeling-/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 18:16:30 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>wonder</dc:creator>
<category>Health</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Health/how-to-help-people-suffering-from-low-esteem-feeling-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[There are thousands of people feeling demotivated for one reason or the other. This feeling makes them away from the society.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I keep contributing to my 401k?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-keep-contributing-to-my-401k/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-keep-contributing-to-my-401k/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2008 11:42:00 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Bad investing</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-keep-contributing-to-my-401k/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have always taken an invest for the long haul philosophy. I am still contributing several hundred dollars a month into a group of funds that are down around 25% this year. Should I keep at it or have recent events changed the rules forever?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it okay to stay in touch your ex?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/is-it-okay-to-stay-in-touch-your-ex/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/is-it-okay-to-stay-in-touch-your-ex/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2008 11:32:54 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/is-it-okay-to-stay-in-touch-your-ex/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My current girl hates that I stay in touch with my ex. It is not like I talk to her every day, but we share emails a couple times a month and I always like to here from her kids (2). Bottom line is that I would never go back there, but it is a part of who I am and I feel like it should be no big deal. She disagrees and is constantly in my face about it. I don't think she is jealous, just untrusting. So what do I do? Do I turn away from something that matters to me to make her happy or do I just tell her to get over herself and be true to me?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How to handle the death of a friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Friend/how-to-handle-the-death-of-a-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Friend/how-to-handle-the-death-of-a-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 11:19:37 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Friend/how-to-handle-the-death-of-a-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My college roommate died of an aortic aneurysm several weeks ago. I went to the funeral, said a couple words and all was fine. Now, I find myself really sad about his absence. I mean, he was a scoundrel. He lied and cheated and partied, like all of us. But he was hilarious and smart and a great athelete and the world is a lesser place with him gone. I have had others die of drugs, but this was faulty anatomy that got him. Something that's probably been there since birth. So, how do I stop thinking about my own mortality? How do I stop feeling sad?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Am I a Socialist?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Borrowing/am-i-a-socialist/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Borrowing/am-i-a-socialist/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:51:59 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Borrowing</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Borrowing/am-i-a-socialist/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am so sick of the rich getting richer and getting off for sticking it to the rest of us. I would be willing to pay more in taxes if people who needed help got it and if people who needed a slap in the face got that, too. The idea of the American Dream is done for middle class working people like myself. The revolution is coming and I will be on top of the barricades and in the front of the protest with my fist clenched. People say America is a joke to the rest of the world. I say we are a joke to our own history and best traditions. Greed defines us. Consumption completes us. America the beautiful? How about America the fat and lazy.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Did I miss my chance?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/did-i-miss-my-chance-1/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/did-i-miss-my-chance-1/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 21:16:21 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>bdwoof</dc:creator>
<category>Long Lost Loves</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Long-Lost-Loves/did-i-miss-my-chance-1/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I went to my 30th high school reunion and saw the high school flame that never was.  I fell in love with her in first period of my freshman year, but never had the guts to say anything to her.  I mean anything.  For an entire semester, I sat in the front row, right next to the most beautiful thing on the face of the earth, and I never said ONE word to her.  Thanks to her, I got a solid A in that class.Anyway, at the 30th reunion she was with her husband of 10 years.  A guy that I went to high school with.  Yeah, you got it--she and an old buddy met up at the 20th reunion, divorced their exs, and ended up getting married.I skipped that reunion.  Did I make a mistake or what?<br/><br/>3 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Back surgery. Yes or no?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/back-surgery--yes-or-no/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/back-surgery--yes-or-no/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 17:36:34 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>GotNothing</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/back-surgery--yes-or-no/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have disc protrusion at L5. I have had it for a couple years and it has been ewasy to manage with meds and stretching. Not anymore. I can't do shit. I just turned 50 and almost overnight i have become stiff and slow and my back hurts ALL THE TIME. My orthpedist is pushing hard for surgery. He says we can push that disc back and give me long term relief. I want to believe him but I looked at some of the data on back surgery and it isn't good. At 10 years most patients have no better pain management than those who didn't go through the surgery. I need some insight from others who have been through this. Help. This is a big, big decision and the doctor is pushing hard. Maybe he needs a new car?!<br/><br/>2 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I go on meds?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/should-i-go-on-meds/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/should-i-go-on-meds/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 11:02:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/should-i-go-on-meds/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am in therapy and business is tough. I just turned 50 and can see the end of the road. All of this and other things have me in a pretty deep funk right now. I went on medication for depression several years ago and it helped. But it has been almost 8 years and I remember the side effects were not great. Question: who is on meds now and are they still having trouble with side effects like shakiness, sexual dysfunction, and the like? Plus, are you feeling better? Is it making a difference in your life? Which meds should I be asking about? Anything to watch out for?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[When is it time to walk away?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/when-is-it-time-to-walk-away/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/when-is-it-time-to-walk-away/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 13:47:10 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>007</dc:creator>
<category>Breaking Up</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/when-is-it-time-to-walk-away/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have been a seeing a woman for a couple years. It has never been perfect, but she is great and trying hard. Still, I am exhausted by the battle to keep it going. Now, I have met someone new and a part of me just wants to give up and go down a new path. Do I stay and fight or throw in the towel&gt;<br/><br/>2 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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