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<title>So, What Now? / DoubleC / All</title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com</link>
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<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:46:43 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[Why do American men love asian women?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:46:43 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A female friend asked me this question and I couldn't answer. I like Asian women but she is looking for something more profound than what I could share. Help.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What do women over 40 want?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:46:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[What?!!!!!! I am tall, dark, handsome...with money and charm...if I do say. In the past I could do no wrong. Now, it seems that women are looking for trainwrecks that are worse than they are. Is that possible? I would love a checklist of how to find one woman that has class, brains and beauty.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Where do I find my mojo?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:44:05 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am putting it out there. I am approaching girls. In the past I did well. But it has been a while and I feel like I am pressing too much. I go nuthin!!!!! It is painful and there are fish everywhere. Except in my boat.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How long do you stay with a business before you give up?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/how-long-do-you-stay-with-a-business-before-you-give-up/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/how-long-do-you-stay-with-a-business-before-you-give-up/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:37:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/how-long-do-you-stay-with-a-business-before-you-give-up/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have developed a web business and cannot seem to get others to participate at a level that would make it a possible success. I know it takes perseverance, but I am tired of going it alone and begging for help. It has been almost a year and now seems like a good time to yell chicken.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Anybody have an answer for collitis?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:52:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Digestive disorders</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have had it for 30 years and it just gets worse and worse. Does anybody know of any natural remedies that can help me to stop using the toilet 30 times a day. When I get there it is mostly blood.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I need to see a doctor for a bruised tendon?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/do-i-need-to-see-a-doctor-for-a-bruised-tendon/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/do-i-need-to-see-a-doctor-for-a-bruised-tendon/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:47:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/do-i-need-to-see-a-doctor-for-a-bruised-tendon/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I hurt my wrist playing golf last Saturday. Two of my tendons are really inflamed. I am icing them and they are feeling better. Do I need to see a doctor?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I leave my family for a job in another city?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/do-i-leave-my-family-for-a-job-in-another-city/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/do-i-leave-my-family-for-a-job-in-another-city/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:40:34 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Shifting careers</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Shifting-careers/do-i-leave-my-family-for-a-job-in-another-city/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have been out of work for almost a year. I finally got a job offer but it is 500 miles away. I would only be home on weekend and some times not even then. I have a wife and 10 and 12 year old. I need the job but it seems like I am risking losing the things that are most important to me.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What if she wants a baby, but not my DNA?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-a-Daddy%E2%80%A6again/what-if-she-wants-a-baby-but-not-my-dna/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-a-Daddy%E2%80%A6again/what-if-she-wants-a-baby-but-not-my-dna/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:26:29 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Becoming a Daddy…again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-a-Daddy%E2%80%A6again/what-if-she-wants-a-baby-but-not-my-dna/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We have been together several years. My family has a history of hereditary disease (I am an Ashkenazi Jew by birth) and this woman is afriad of my gene pool. Not that I blame her nut CHoosing a sperm bank over me seems like a pretty unhealthy sign. Do I dump her and look for someone from my own tribe?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can I be friend's with my ex sister-in-law?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/can-i-be-friends-with-my-ex-sister-in-law/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/can-i-be-friends-with-my-ex-sister-in-law/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:24:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/can-i-be-friends-with-my-ex-sister-in-law/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My wife and I wer wrong for each other, but I liked her family, and in particular her sister, a lot. Is this a relationship that can be maintained? Or does divorce mean everyone and everything is gone?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is arbitration a good idea in divorce?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 18:59:11 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Divorce/is-arbitration-a-good-idea-in-divorce/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I saw something a website--divorce360--that recommended arbitration when both parties are friendly. Wrong!!!! We were friendly but what I needed was someone fighting for me. I felt guilty and was willing to give everything away. The abritration attorney let me without recommending that I rethink my generousity. Divorce sucks, no matter what. But you can't do it as friends. Get an attorney and take care of yourself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How do I handle a friend's wife sharingtheir marital woes and then hitting one me?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/how-do-i-handle-a-friends-wife-sharingtheir-marital-woes-and-then-hitting-one-me/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/how-do-i-handle-a-friends-wife-sharingtheir-marital-woes-and-then-hitting-one-me/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:27:08 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/how-do-i-handle-a-friends-wife-sharingtheir-marital-woes-and-then-hitting-one-me/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My good friend has been married to this woman for 25 years. I always thought they were the model couple. But over the weekend she shared their troubles--deep--and her unhappiness. I pushed her away when things got too creepy but I am wondering if I should at least ask my friend how things are going? Part of me just wants to run from it and pretend I didn't hear anything.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I invite an employee to live with me?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/should-i-invite-an-employee-to-live-with-me/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/should-i-invite-an-employee-to-live-with-me/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:24:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/should-i-invite-an-employee-to-live-with-me/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[He is a good guy who is leaving his strange wife. He is kind of on his own and I thought a couple weeks would do no harm. Am I nuts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can you be friends with your ex?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:11:41 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I used to think that I could remain friends with old wives and girlfriends, but I don't think so anymore. Why do women insist that it was they who did the breaking up? Who cares. And whay do they feel a need to tear us down to our friends? Just shut up. Everything was better when we were younger. Older women are just older and meaner.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How aware should kids be of your financial situation?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:41:29 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Kids and school</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am struggling right now and need to keep spending to a minimum. I don;t want to alarm my family but I need them to watch things, too. How do I share this info with teenagers and an 8-year old? I have never lied to them but they are kids and may not handle a topic they don't really understand.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Are women bigger liars than men?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:38:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/are-women-bigger-liars-than-men/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I really want to know. Because my experience says yes. They have claimed poverty to get money, abuse to get sympathy, illness to get attention, and everyother possible lie you can think of. Women are professionals. We run far behind in this race, my friends.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Why are woman online so weird?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 13:56:42 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/why-are-woman-online-so-weird/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[They are there one minute and then just disappear. They promise to write or call back and never do. They say they want to meet someone, but do they? I think they like the game of being chased without the danger of actually getting caught.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[All commission sales reps?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:00:42 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I run a marketing company with clients scattered nationally. Business is off (duh!!) and a friend suggested I bring on some hungry dogs to try and change the flow. This is a cultural shift for us as a company. We have always been more referral based and have survived for 20 years staying above the pack with good service and work. But it is a different time. My concern is that this move shifts our brand into more of a price-cutting model as these guys go for anything they can to get commissions. This doesn't feel right but the most important thing is the survival of the business. Any experiences out there with blood sucking reps.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What if I like her friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:04:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Loving Her Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We dated for a couple years. She broke with me. Now, I have run into one of her friends and it is clear that something great could happen, but she thinks we are being disloyal. I am willing to go to my ex to ask her okay....Is that appropriate or am i giving her too much power?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Online dating nightmares?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:34:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am having a tough time finding women of substance. I am 50, recently divorced and just getting back out there. I feel like I am too old for bars and all my friends are married. I don't go to church and don;t have much time for volunteer work. I have read a lot about online dating. Any bad experiences out there that would lead me to say &quot;no&quot; to this strategy?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is a good friend's ex off limits?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 15:38:18 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[They were never together much (his words), but they did travel and sleep together. They've been done about a month and I ran into her and it was clear something could happen. I haven't been in this situation in a long time and wanted to know if the rules had changed. In my day, this was a strict no no. Is that still true?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is it time for AA?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:23:56 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Getting happy</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-happy/is-it-time-for-aa/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I like that this site is anonymous. I am in my mid-50s and started drinking after my divorce 15 years ago. I never drank while I was married. Now I am hitting it pretty good. I never miss a day of work and I am pretty healthy, but I know it must be taking its toll. The worst thing is that after a string of bad relationships I would rather srink at home alone than go out and meet someone new. Another thing, I oretty much only drink at home. I have a soda and lime when I am out. So it is home where my hell is. Is it time for a change? I guess if I am asking the question the answer is yes. Isn't that what the book says?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[She cheated and is sorry.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:38:33 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Cheating</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The title says it all. I found out through friends that it has been going on for years. We have two lilttle kids and she is sorry. I told her I am leaving and she says she will do anything to reconcile, including moving out of state, which I want to do. I feel like a fresh start, a new state, and a new state of mind could be the answer. I know I am stupid, but can people change. Again, two little kids and doesn't everybody cheat?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Laid off and not sure what to do?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/laid-off-and-not-sure-what-to-do/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/laid-off-and-not-sure-what-to-do/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 20:06:20 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/laid-off-and-not-sure-what-to-do/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Somebody close to me is out of job and looking for answers. I am not in his situation but I know I would be freaking out right now. He's applied for unemployment and is looking to go back to school for something new, but what else is there? Where do you start when things are this bad? DO you call old friends who have nothing to give? Is it time to start your own detailing business or something else that puts money in your pocket today? When you are used to steady employment how do you handle no money and no good news, especially when there is no food on the table? Help me. I want to be supportive but I don't know where to send him.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How soon am I back out there?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-soon-am-i-back-out-there/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-soon-am-i-back-out-there/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 19:56:18 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-soon-am-i-back-out-there/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I said goodbye to my ex only a couple days ago. Last time this happened I hid away for almost two months. It was fine but led me back to her. Maybe this time I should jump into the pool and have a swim? It never hurts to get wet!!<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Afraid of cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/afraid-of-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/afraid-of-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 11:25:44 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/afraid-of-cancer/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A good friend just had his prostate surgically removed. In talking him through this tough time I became very informed about prostate cancer and the horrible treatment choices men have to make. They are all bad. Sure, it is a slow growing cancer but over 50% of men lose their potency. So, now it is all I think about. My PSA is normal , but I am in my 50s and I know the body starts to fall apart. How do I stop thinking about this...stop being afraid...and just go on and live my life?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How young is too young?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-young-is-too-young/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-young-is-too-young/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 13:29:39 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-young-is-too-young/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am in my late 40s. I have met a woman in her late 20s and she is interested but it seems like a long way to go. I guess it could be fun but I am tired of hooking up, doing the dance and breaking up. Just so tedious and I am ready for more, I think. Is someone 20 years my junior too young or am I just too old?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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