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<title>So, What Now? / Divisopo33 / Commented News</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 02:23:29 -0600</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[rdsetkEGmyxNHYodNgg]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Careers/rdsetkegmyxnhyodngg/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Careers/rdsetkegmyxnhyodngg/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 02:23:29 -0600</pubDate>
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<category>Careers</category>
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<description><![CDATA[HxBt4V  dfwrhrtcwgvm, [url=http://kybkgeyuafza.com/]kybkgeyuafza[/url], [link=http://gxjtmmvnoujn.com/]gxjtmmvnoujn[/link], http://olkhtejndudp.com/<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Niche Video Scripts PHP Video CMS Script]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/niche-video-scripts-php-video-cms-script/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/niche-video-scripts-php-video-cms-script/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 12:31:12 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Ferrufinotek</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/niche-video-scripts-php-video-cms-script/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Niche Video Site Building Script to Create 100% Unique Content Video Sites, Powerfull Video Script YouTube Clone, Build 100s of Targeted Keyword Niche Video Websites Lightning Fast<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[PHP Video Scripts Get The Answers You Need]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/php-video-scripts-get-the-answers-you-need/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/php-video-scripts-get-the-answers-you-need/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 13:43:21 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Ferrufinotek</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/php-video-scripts-get-the-answers-you-need/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[PHP Video Scripts - Find The Answers to All Questions Asked About The Top Video Sharing YouTube Clone Scripts - PHP Video Scripts Get The Answers You Need<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[chappe chaufe im wintersb]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/chappe-chaufe-im-wintersb/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/chappe-chaufe-im-wintersb/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 06:33:57 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Schwartzkopfnqayh</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/chappe-chaufe-im-wintersb/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[chaschs der ineziehsn<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-3/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-3/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:33:13 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Weichmanmunz433</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-3/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[news for idiots, jokes for farts]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:17:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>adubien4</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/news-for-idiots-jokes-for-farts-1/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Made me laugh like a drain. Thanks for the pointer, Ian.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Object Modeling of Ontologies and Object models in Object Oriented Software Engineering]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:13:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>bbbppp</dc:creator>
<category>Selling your business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Selling-your-business/object-modeling-of-ontologies-and-object-models-in-object-oriented-software-engineering/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The object-oriented model is based on a collection ofobjects. An object contains values stored in instance variableswithin the object. Thus objects contain objects to anarbitrarily deep level of nesting. Attributes/properties: objectswill have at least one attribute. Possible slot types areprimitive types (integer, boolean, string etc.), references toother objects (modeling relationships) and sets of values ofthese types. An object also contains bodies of code thatoperate on the object. These bodies of code are calledmethods. Method/Operations: They are attached to classes orslots and contain meta information, such as comments,constraints and default values. Relationship/relations: theyrepresent the relation between objects/classes from objecemodel (KB). Major classes of relations exist: relationscombining labels(the name we tend to give to things) andconcepts(the things themselves) and concepts and relationscombining concepts (the part-whole relation).   Objects that contain the same types of values and the samemethods are grouped into classes. A class may be viewed as atype definition for objects. Analogy: the programminglanguage concept of an abstract data type. The only way inwhich one object can access the data of another object is byinvoking the method of that other object. This is calledsending a message to the object. Internal parts of the object,the instance variables and method code, are not visibleexternally or some researchers called it as black box.   Object/Class represent the tangible things. Forexample, an object representing a bank account. The objectcontains instance variables number and balance. The objectcontains a method pay-interest which adds interest to thebalance. Under most data models, changing the interest rateentails changing code in application programs. In the object-oriented model, this only entails a change within the pay-interest method. In commonly-known object-orienteddata models attributes and associations are not defined withthe class specification itself. Instead, class properties arefirst-class primitive themselves .  One approach for implementing objects is to have a class,which defines the implementation for multiple objects. Aclass defines what types the objects will implement, how toperform the behavior required for the interface and how toremember state information. Each object will then only needto remember its individual state. Although using classes is byfar the most common object approach, it is not the onlyapproach (using prototypes is another approach) and is reallyperipheral to the core concepts of object-oriented modeling.   Unified Modeling Languages (UML) is well known andwidely used object modeling that consist of concepts/entitypes/classes in a specification hierarchy, the descriptionof concepts by attributes which have range and relationshipbetween concepts. UML defines several types of diagram thatcan be used to model the static and dynamic behaviors of asystem. A UML object diagram does not define a standard setof primitive types for attributes and operation declarations;however, Object Constraint Languages (OCL) does and it isproposed that these be used for ontology modeling with UMLModel an ontology as a static model consisting of a classdiagram to depict the classes in the domain and theirrelationships, an object diagram to show particular namedinstances of those classes.   Conceptual (or Ontology) modeling deals with the questionon how to describe in a declarative and abstract way thedomain information of an application, its relevant vocabulary,and how to constrain the use of the data. Modeling languageslike UML and Object Data Management Group (ODMG)have been developed for object oriented models in softwareengineering. Common to all of these newer models is thearrangement of concepts/entitytypes/classes in a specializationhierarchy, the description of concepts by attributes whichhave ranges and relationships between concepts. Concepts,relationshiptypes and attributes abstract from concrete objectsor values and thus describe the schema (the ontology). On theother hand concrete objects populate the concepts, concretevalues instantiate the attributes of these objects and concreterelations instantiate relationships.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Why do American men love asian women?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 19:46:43 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-american-men-love-asian-women/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A female friend asked me this question and I couldn't answer. I like Asian women but she is looking for something more profound than what I could share. Help.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I chase my friend's ex-wife who is soooooooo ot?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:22:37 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/should-i-chase-my-friends-ex-wife-who-is-soooooooo-ot/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I know, I know, I know, I know, I know. Crazy. Let me have it.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is 2 weeks not enough for her?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/is-2-weeks-not-enough-for-her/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/is-2-weeks-not-enough-for-her/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:20:12 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/is-2-weeks-not-enough-for-her/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I really like thiis girl but she is fresh out of  a thing with a crazy cop. I think I should give her some room but I am so drawn to her that it is hard to push it away. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What do women over 40 want?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:46:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-do-women-over-40-want/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[What?!!!!!! I am tall, dark, handsome...with money and charm...if I do say. In the past I could do no wrong. Now, it seems that women are looking for trainwrecks that are worse than they are. Is that possible? I would love a checklist of how to find one woman that has class, brains and beauty.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Where do I find my mojo?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 20:44:05 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/where-do-i-find-my-mojo/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am putting it out there. I am approaching girls. In the past I did well. But it has been a while and I feel like I am pressing too much. I go nuthin!!!!! It is painful and there are fish everywhere. Except in my boat.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Anybody have an answer for collitis?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:52:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Digestive disorders</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Digestive-disorders/anybody-have-an-answer-for-collitis/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have had it for 30 years and it just gets worse and worse. Does anybody know of any natural remedies that can help me to stop using the toilet 30 times a day. When I get there it is mostly blood.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How do I handle a friend's wife sharingtheir marital woes and then hitting one me?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/how-do-i-handle-a-friends-wife-sharingtheir-marital-woes-and-then-hitting-one-me/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/how-do-i-handle-a-friends-wife-sharingtheir-marital-woes-and-then-hitting-one-me/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:27:08 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/how-do-i-handle-a-friends-wife-sharingtheir-marital-woes-and-then-hitting-one-me/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My good friend has been married to this woman for 25 years. I always thought they were the model couple. But over the weekend she shared their troubles--deep--and her unhappiness. I pushed her away when things got too creepy but I am wondering if I should at least ask my friend how things are going? Part of me just wants to run from it and pretend I didn't hear anything.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I invite an employee to live with me?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/should-i-invite-an-employee-to-live-with-me/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/should-i-invite-an-employee-to-live-with-me/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:24:26 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/should-i-invite-an-employee-to-live-with-me/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[He is a good guy who is leaving his strange wife. He is kind of on his own and I thought a couple weeks would do no harm. Am I nuts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can you be friends with your ex?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:11:41 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I used to think that I could remain friends with old wives and girlfriends, but I don't think so anymore. Why do women insist that it was they who did the breaking up? Who cares. And whay do they feel a need to tear us down to our friends? Just shut up. Everything was better when we were younger. Older women are just older and meaner.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How damaging to her was her father's suicide?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 15:35:55 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Parents</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Parents/how-damaging-to-her-was-her-fathers-suicide/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am seeing a woman whose father committed suicide several years ago. She doesn't like to talk about it, which I respect. But I need to understand her feelings around the event if I am going to go forward with her. I don't want to pry, but I do want to know what I am dealing with. How do I ask her about it? Or, should I just split now?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What women leaves three kids to move for a job?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 13:39:02 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/what-women-leaves-three-kids-to-move-for-a-job/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I just met this woman who is quite beautiful and accomplished. I like her. But she moved to LA to pursue a job after divorcing her husband and leaving three little kids in his custody. This seems strange to me. I would think she would want to be closer.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Dating more than one woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 10:30:36 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>EastOfHere</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/dating-more-than-one-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I used to say no to this. But I have learned that more often than not, the woman you are dating is seeing someone on the side. Am I the only one who has discovered this pattern of late? I used to think that loyalty to one was the ideal, but it seems that keeping it fresh with a couple is the new paradigm. Comments?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How aware should kids be of your financial situation?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:41:29 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Kids and school</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Kids-and-school/how-aware-should-kids-be-of-your-financial-situation/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am struggling right now and need to keep spending to a minimum. I don;t want to alarm my family but I need them to watch things, too. How do I share this info with teenagers and an 8-year old? I have never lied to them but they are kids and may not handle a topic they don't really understand.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[BioSync or surgery?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:14:48 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>GotNothing</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-or-surgery/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have a herniated disc in my neck. The ortho wanted to cut me, but a girl recommended BioSync. It is deep tissue massage that increases the blood flow to tissue. My neck is much better and even my ortho said ti was smart to delay or avoid surgery. I don't know if it will last forever, but I am doing well enough right now and I can still go to the gym and hit a ball. Before surgery...give this a try.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I jump out of my house?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:08:08 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Bad investing</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Bad-investing/should-i-jump-out-of-my-house/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have lost 40% of my value. If prices were to go up 5% a year I would not break even for 20 years. I am thinking of simply packing up and moving out. In two years I will have saved enough for 20% down on my next place and the market will still be way down so I will actually be in a place to build equity. I know it is irresponsible. But these are desperate times and I feel a need to look at things very selfishly. I need to make money on my house or I will be on the street when I retire. Thoughts on this plan would be very appreciated.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[All commission sales reps?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:00:42 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/all-commission-sales-reps/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I run a marketing company with clients scattered nationally. Business is off (duh!!) and a friend suggested I bring on some hungry dogs to try and change the flow. This is a cultural shift for us as a company. We have always been more referral based and have survived for 20 years staying above the pack with good service and work. But it is a different time. My concern is that this move shifts our brand into more of a price-cutting model as these guys go for anything they can to get commissions. This doesn't feel right but the most important thing is the survival of the business. Any experiences out there with blood sucking reps.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How do you feel about buying jewelry?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 21:15:43 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>akoehn</dc:creator>
<category>Becoming Engaged</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Becoming-Engaged/how-do-you-feel-about-buying-jewelry/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I want to know what men think about the jewelry buying experience.  Do you think it's worth it?  Do you &quot;get&quot; it?  At what point do you consider giving something like jewelry to the woman you're with?  What sucks about the jewelry buying process?  That kind of stuff.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What to do for someone dying of cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 12:27:44 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Cancer</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/what-to-do-for-someone-dying-of-cancer/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A good friend has been diagnosed with cervical cancer. She is not doing well. I have never been through this and am struggling with how to support her as she gets worse and worse. Any ideas?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[What if I like her friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:04:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Loving Her Friend</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Loving-Her-Friend/what-if-i-like-her-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We dated for a couple years. She broke with me. Now, I have run into one of her friends and it is clear that something great could happen, but she thinks we are being disloyal. I am willing to go to my ex to ask her okay....Is that appropriate or am i giving her too much power?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Drugs in my girlfriend's purse?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:58:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating In Your 40s And 50s</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-In-Your-40s-And-50s/drugs-in-my-girlfriends-purse/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I was looking for her phone when I found a little baggie filled with white powder. I my day that would have been a lot of blow, but I don't do it anymore so I am not sure what is a lot and what is not anymore. I have only been dating her a couple months and I like her. Is this a deal buster. I have my own firm so there is nobody I need to impress. But I worry that she will be carrying it around me and I could be caught up in her bad karma. Thoughts? TIme to let her go?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Assisted living or home care?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:42:45 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Moving in</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/assisted-living-or-home-care/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Finances and poor care are causing me to rethink my Mother's assisted living situation. She could stay with me and I would hire a full-time nurse. All Mom would miss are her friends. How important are these social connections? Is the place keeping her alive or her friendships? I may be able to find a new place neqarby where she could go for the day a couple times a week. Right now, she is not doing well but I don;t want to make it worse.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[BioSync vs surgery?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-vs-surgery/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-vs-surgery/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:39:06 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Getting fit</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Getting-fit/biosync-vs-surgery/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A derniated disc in my neck got me close to surgery. But a friend recommended BioSync. It is deep tissue massage that focuses on breaking down the scar tissue and collagen to increase blood flow to the injury. My question is does anybody else have expeience with BioSync? Did it hurt or help?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Online dating nightmares?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:34:35 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/online-dating-nightmares/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am having a tough time finding women of substance. I am 50, recently divorced and just getting back out there. I feel like I am too old for bars and all my friends are married. I don't go to church and don;t have much time for volunteer work. I have read a lot about online dating. Any bad experiences out there that would lead me to say &quot;no&quot; to this strategy?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3263/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3263/</comments>
<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 12:00:52 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>macboy</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/-3263/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Is a good friend's ex off limits?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 15:38:18 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/is-a-good-friends-ex-off-limits/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[They were never together much (his words), but they did travel and sleep together. They've been done about a month and I ran into her and it was clear something could happen. I haven't been in this situation in a long time and wanted to know if the rules had changed. In my day, this was a strict no no. Is that still true?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Where are all the great women?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:36:15 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>NumberOne</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/where-are-all-the-great-women/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Women talk all the time about how hard it is ti meet good guys. But where are all the good women? I tell you, they are not single. There is good reason most single women are single. The more I meet the more damage I see. SIngle women in their 40s have been through multiple relationships and are unwilling to compromise or change to meet the needs of another. That is why men go young, I think. It isn't for the look of youth, it is for the fun and laughter and wide-eyed joy that young women bring to a relationship. They are grateful. They are filled with hope. They are open to something new and willing to leave their old selves behind to embark on something bigger and better.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[WHy do I keep chossing the same woman?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:23:23 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Dating After Divorce</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Dating-After-Divorce/why-do-i-keep-chossing-the-same-woman/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[She may be blond, dark or whatever, but the same woman keeps coming into my life. She is disloyal, dishonest and runs me around like a little boy. How can I change my karma and make better decisions? How do I stop listening to chemistry and start thinking twice before committing to trainwrecks?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[She cheated and is sorry.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:38:33 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>DoubleC</dc:creator>
<category>Cheating</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Cheating/she-cheated-and-is-sorry-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The title says it all. I found out through friends that it has been going on for years. We have two lilttle kids and she is sorry. I told her I am leaving and she says she will do anything to reconcile, including moving out of state, which I want to do. I feel like a fresh start, a new state, and a new state of mind could be the answer. I know I am stupid, but can people change. Again, two little kids and doesn't everybody cheat?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[An answer for chronic pain.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</comments>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 14:34:48 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/an-answer-for-chronic-pain-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[This is not a question, but I have noticed a lot of questions around chronic pain. I was headed to surgery for a herniated disc when someone turned me onto BioSync. It is deep, deep tissue massage that claims to break down scar tissue and collagen so that blood can get to the injured area. It has really helped me neck and I would encourage everybody to try it before going under the knife. Chekc it out at www.biosync.com.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Back or not?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:36:12 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>yayaya008</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/back-or-not/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We were together a long time ago. We always laughed a lot and had blast. Now, we are both fresh out of ptwo pretty bad relationships and we are talking again. Do I jump in? Jump on? My friends and fmaily would be horrified that I would go back but there is simething about this woman....Am I nuts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Stopping unwanted text messages.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/stopping-unwanted-text-messages-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/stopping-unwanted-text-messages-/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 13:38:31 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/stopping-unwanted-text-messages-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[An ex is harassing me through texts. Is there a way to block them? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How to talk about their dad.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:13:19 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TheUncle</dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/how-to-talk-about-their-dad-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I am a part of a new family and am struggling about how to reference my stepkids father. He is not a good guy, doesn;t pay his support and is a drug user. I think the kids know this, but I don't want to dump on him. That would only make them defend him. So what do I do? Pretend his behavior is okay? Condemn him? Ignore him...that would be disingenuous. The kids are 12 and 14 so they get it. But they love their dad in their own way and come back after a weekend with him spitting bullets at their Mom.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Stepkids....]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:00:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have one set of stepkids. Mom was insane. But the kids are great and we are still close. Now I am with a new gal and she has kids, as well, and a crazy ex. I like this woman but am a little burnt on weeding through all the issues that come with a situation like this. Still, the best women out there are ones with kids, at least for me. A woman in her 40s who has never been married is a train wreck. There is a reason they are single....I guess I just answered my own question.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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