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<title>So, What Now? / CEO2 / All</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:32:49 -0500</pubDate>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I take her back because she has cancer?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Cancer/do-i-take-her-back-because-she-has-cancer/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:32:49 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Cancer</category>
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<description><![CDATA[An old girlfriend has come back with a diagnosis of cancer. She wants me back and I wouldn't mind that. Am I being used? She says the cancer made her think about me. Am I a sucker?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Can anything good from inter-office romance?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Office-Sex/can-anything-good-from-inter-office-romance/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Office-Sex/can-anything-good-from-inter-office-romance/</comments>
<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:29:48 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Office Sex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Office-Sex/can-anything-good-from-inter-office-romance/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A beautiful, fresh, smart, talented woman has entered my life. Unfortunately she works at my company and there is a strict rule against such things. She is amazing. Maybe th eone I have been waiting for. I am 45 and never married. I don;t want to miss out on her, but I don;t want to lose my job either.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should Dad move in when Mom is sent away?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:54:24 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Moving in</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Moving-in/should-dad-move-in-when-mom-is-sent-away/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My Mom needs more care than Dad can provide. We are moving her into an assisted living facility next month. Dad is healthier bu it will be hard for him to be alone and he is not ready for the &quot;home.&quot; Should I put him in a lower care facility or move him in with me? I am single and alone, so it would be just me and him.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Stopping unwanted text messages.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/stopping-unwanted-text-messages-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/stopping-unwanted-text-messages-/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 13:38:31 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Managing Your Ex</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Managing-Your-Ex/stopping-unwanted-text-messages-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[An ex is harassing me through texts. Is there a way to block them? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Stepkids....]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:00:22 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Step kids</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Step-kids/stepkids----/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have one set of stepkids. Mom was insane. But the kids are great and we are still close. Now I am with a new gal and she has kids, as well, and a crazy ex. I like this woman but am a little burnt on weeding through all the issues that come with a situation like this. Still, the best women out there are ones with kids, at least for me. A woman in her 40s who has never been married is a train wreck. There is a reason they are single....I guess I just answered my own question.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Giving it a go....]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/giving-it-a-go----/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/giving-it-a-go----/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 09:12:47 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Starting a new business</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-a-new-business/giving-it-a-go----/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Some friends and I have put together a new venture that has potential, and some serious roadblocks. I have been the driver through the development process and now need others to join in. It's a longshot and will take lots of energy and capital. I know nothing was ever accomplished without enthusiasm but I have given so much to this thing that I am not sure I have the stuff to get it to the next level. Do I throw in the towel or push ahead?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Friends with an ex?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/friends-with-an-ex/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/friends-with-an-ex/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 18:04:50 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Breaking Up</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/friends-with-an-ex/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Is this possible? I recently was given the pink slip by a wonderful woman who I have a lot in common with. We really do connect on so many things and if I didn;t burn for her she would be great to be with for all sorts of activities. The problem is I do burn for her. She just doesn't feel the same way about me. She says she wants to be friends, which in some ways sucks. But in other ways is her truth and I am okay with it. My question is about friendship: can I be friends with her without wanting to poke my eyes out with hot spikes? If so, how? It would be a shame to lose her completely from my world but I don't want to be making myself crazy.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Replacing the perfect girl]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/replacing-the-perfect-girl/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/replacing-the-perfect-girl/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 17:55:37 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Starting Again</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Starting-Again/replacing-the-perfect-girl/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have been in and out of less-than-satisfying relationships for 10 years. A month ago I found someone really special. I thought things were going great when she told me she just wasn't feeling it. I have never heard these words and was shocked to be duumped. Especially by someone I liked so much. So, right now my head is spinning. Did I move too fast? DId I offer too much? Was I too eager, too old for her (12 year gap) or too anything. Sure I have plenty of places to go for most everything I need. But Hat I want and wanted was a spiritual partner in crime to explore the world with. Plus, goimg back into the dating scene to start again is really depressing. Ugghhh....so what now, friends?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Accupuncture?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/accupuncture/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/accupuncture/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:08:54 -0500</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Old athlete stuff</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Old-athlete-stuff/accupuncture/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I have herniated a disc in my neck. I have had two epidurals and am getting some relief. I am planning on at least one more injection adn then, who knows? But I want to do what's best. How has surgery worked for others?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How much in cash?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Retirement/how-much-in-cash/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Retirement/how-much-in-cash/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 10:41:45 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Retirement</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Retirement/how-much-in-cash/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My financial advisor suggested that I should be putting a large portion of my portfolio in cash--not gold. Cash. He recommended 25%. Any thoughts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Lay-offs or paycuts?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/lay-offs-or-paycuts/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/lay-offs-or-paycuts/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 10:23:34 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Running the show</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Running-the-show/lay-offs-or-paycuts/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I need to do one or the other. Business is down (like you didn't know that!) and something must be done. So cuts are in order but I was wondering if folks thought that paycuts were too demoralizing to those left behind? Is the cleanliness of a staff reduction better for all?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Should I open my house to a friend?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Living-Together/should-i-open-my-house-to-a-friend/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Living-Together/should-i-open-my-house-to-a-friend/</comments>
<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 12:37:43 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Living Together</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Living-Together/should-i-open-my-house-to-a-friend/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A dear friend has hit the economic wall. She is 30 days from living out of her car. I offered my guest room as a place for her to live. I have plenty of room and these crazy times seem to call out for a new way of thkning and living. Am I nuts?<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Do I apologize for being tough?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/do-i-apologize-for-being-tough/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/do-i-apologize-for-being-tough/</comments>
<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 18:56:55 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>Breaking Up</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/Breaking-Up/do-i-apologize-for-being-tough/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My ex and I have not been happy for awhile. I told her a couple weeks ago that I was done and she came right back at me that she had been over me for a long time. Well, that pissed me off and I said some things that I regret. I know it really doesn't matter, but it has left me feeling less than standup about how things went. Again, I know it won't change anything and I don't want it to. I would just like to feel better about myself.<br/><br/>0 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Big boss man.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/big-boss-man-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/big-boss-man-/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 22:32:25 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/big-boss-man-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Lots of new hires in this day and age. Lots of new problems. My temp agency has plenty to sell and no buyers. My real problem is that I have over qualified folks looking for something, anything. They are willing to take jobs which do not suit them and this leaves clients questioning my decision making. I am wondering how to manage my candidates and my clients in this new world. There are no rules.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Cancer of the prostate.]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/cancer-of-the-prostate-/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/cancer-of-the-prostate-/</comments>
<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 22:20:14 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/cancer-of-the-prostate-/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[My business partner has been diagnosed with prostate surgery. Surgery is recommended. The DaVinci system is one alternative. Cryotherapy is another as is radiation. DaVinci is the current hot thing but it is heavily technique dependent. Cryotherapy preserves some tissue but has dubious results. Bottom line: impotency is the likely result no matter the platform. I am looking for real world experience with anything to help him. thanks.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[How do I get my vitality back?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-do-i-get-my-vitality-back/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-do-i-get-my-vitality-back/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 12:59:01 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/how-do-i-get-my-vitality-back/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I know it is tough on everyone out there. I have friends who are looking for work and closing shop on their existing buisnesses. I am faced with nothing of the kind. I just can't seem to get it going. I go to the gym and eat right. I don't over induge in alcohol and stay away from sweets. But it is getting harder and harder to get up in the morning. Everything seems like a hige chore and what I used to enjoy just lays there for me. It doesn;t feel like depression. I don;t know what it feels like. I just have no passion for anything. What do I do? All the old ways to make me happy seem like an imposition. I need a smile and all I can muster is a yawn.<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Ex employees and new consultants?]]></title>
<link>http://sowhatnow.com/all/ex-employees-and-new-consultants/</link>
<comments>http://sowhatnow.com/all/ex-employees-and-new-consultants/</comments>
<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 20:42:52 -0600</pubDate>
<dc:creator>CEO2</dc:creator>
<category>all</category>
<guid>http://sowhatnow.com/all/ex-employees-and-new-consultants/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Recent events forced a layoff at our factory. Several senior managers offered to consult as a way to transition the company. I have never hired ex's to serve as consultants, although I know this is popular in larger organizations. Does it work? How should it be structured? What effect does it have on those that remain?<br/><br/>1 Vote(s) ]]></description>
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