My brother is engaged to a woman who is horrible. She changes everythign about him and is a poison to my family. While she is quite intelligent, she applies her considerable intellect in devious ways that undermines and is threatening to all. My brother is utterly captivated. Heackowledges real issues with her but says that he can save her. My question is how do I save him? This is his life? Not a game. She's not just some girl that is going to go away. He needs to see what his life has in store for him. Is it my place to do that? I am best man at his wedding. Where does my responsibility to my brother conflict with the need to keep everything on schedule for that special day? I am going to be sick.
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