I was married for 13 years and by the end my ex was suffering panic attacks, agoraphobia and other assorted disorders. It was horrible for her but when I left she got better. Now, I am in a two-year thing and my current girl is suffering migrain headaches, ulcers, sleep disorders and depression. It all feels very deja vu and I am wondering if I am creating something that takes the life out of these women? I know and they knew/know that this is only temporary; that each of us will be moving on to others at some point. I am very clear on that. But does that type of agreement up front throw women off? They want to know the truth, they say....But do they?
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